Poor ethics – Singsnap owner Trevor McGuire says he is an advocate against hate when in fact he has allowed and is continuing to allow a member (not staff) (not even a volunteer) Shanda to use the site for harassment, defamation and libel. | She doesn't even trust him so what's up with that? | Shanda got a hold of a video that had been set to private from staff we guess. (No one else has access). She then posted it in public on Youtube for all to view. The video was never intended for the public. If Trevor McGuire did not give her the video, did staff? | How did she get it? For a family site so enraged and upset over hate, why is the site doing just that? In our opinion hate is harassment, defamation and libel. | Hate is allowing a very very mentally ill woman to use the family site for continued harassment. | A pm from Shanda (topher 2010) to another Singsnapsucks member: | I am upset my name was used on that other site. I have NOTHING, | absolutely NOTHING to do with Katie's mess. I would NEVER do the | bidding of Trevor, you know that. Do you remember how nasty I was to | him and Katie both when she fired me? | Now, I am sorry. I asked Annie to lift you ban. I still have | the f*****g pm were I asked and she said NO. I started to realize | things… it has taken me the whole year to take off my damned | blinders. I do NOT trust Trevor. I feel mistreated and taken | advantage of by Trevor. | I did not plan to renew my gold, in fact. Kerry gave me that as a | birthday/Christmas present… INSISTED. I couldn't say no. He | and I are JUST FRIENDS… there was something more for a while but THAT is | over. He is reconciling with his wife and I am reconciling with my | husband. | I've been sick, my son has been VERY, VERY sick the majority of this | year. I cannot handle anymore of this stuff. I just CAN NOT. | Please, please, please, just tell them to leave me alone. I had | nothing to do with all that shit Katie did. I am, in fact, irritated I | was accused by you and others of being the one to harass you by email when, | time after time, I told everyone I would not do that. Why the f**k | would I jeopardize my family by doing something illegal? | I harassed you HERE because of your references to mentally ill people, | only that and nothing more. It just so happened Katie was pulling her | tricks for Trevor at the same time. | GOD HAVE MERCY. | Shanda? Singsnap? God have mercy on your souls as well.