I met this man on bearshare, I was told it was a music sharing site, but apparently it has become a dating site as well. Anyway, he said he was in the military, a widower and he was looking for a good woman. He was really nice and polite and I did notice that his English wasnt the best, but i dismissed that. By the second time we spoke, he was calling me babe and telling methat he wanted to be with me and could i help him to get leave from Iraq. He wanted me to sign papers that were sent to me. When i saw these papers, I couldn’t believe how fake they were and the e-mail adress to sent them to was [email protected], not a government site. He wanted at first $800 to pay for his plane to come home, then he reduced the price to $655, saying his commander was gonna help. Uh-huh! I have send nothing and do not intend to. He is very convincing and can be so romantic, but I can’t give money away. I was so close to helping him, he is on my YM right now and I am invisible cause i dont think i should talk to him again. Please ladies, beware- the pics of the Sgt. are nice, he looks handsome, but I am sure it is not even him.